Last time I said that I will post once a week, but I will probably do more than that. Who doesn't have an abundance of things to say?
Today I want to talk about something that has been on my mind for quite some time. Gender is a spectrum. There are different identities, preferred pronouns, and ways to express gender. I understand that and that is NOT what this post is about.
Now that we have that out of the way...
I am speaking from experience and I am aiming at young gay men. The boys about to turn 18, or the babies who just turned 18 and are finally getting out and being a part of the actual gay community. Or even those who have been able to be open and active in the community at a younger age. I see way too many young men who make their sexuality their entire identity.
Again, this isn't about gender expression. I am talking about forgetting every aspect of one's life except for their sexual orientation. I know it's exciting to finally be around other gay people and being able to make your own decisions. And you should be excited. You survived high school and that isn't easy for a gay boy. Congratulations. However, you have no idea how the world works, even though you think you do now.
You don't know who is out there. There are many people who may have malicious intent when speaking to you. They may be nice and charming. Don't get me wrong, but if you go to gay bars or clubs, you need to be careful. Yes, you should be excited that you are an adult now, but you need to know the dangers out there and know that people may hurt you. Not everyone is like this and I'm not saying you shouldn't make new friends. Your high school friends are history, you need new friends.
Keep your guard up though.
I'm sorry if this post was a bit of a downer or buzzkill. Not every post will be like this. I may even make one funny. We'll have to see what mood I'm in ;)
You are loved. Stay strong. Stay united, and fight out hate.
~A Millenial
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